Is it a problem having an older boyfriend? Honestly, I don't know. It seems to me that if you're over 20, then having an older boyfriend is not a problem. Maybe because love doesn't change that much from person to person over that age. Ofcourse, everyone is different. Some people always look for true love, and maybe they have been looking for it their whole life. And other may not care that much about that stuff. But whether you're a romantic type or not, I guess everyone thinks about a life partner when they're about 20. Some may not until 25, but you get my point.

So forexample like me, an 15 year old girl, having an much older boyfriend. Yeah, I think that could be a problem. First av all, it could be some kind of wierd pedo. Hah, but that's not my point now. Okey, let's say he was 19. That's only 4 years older, and it's not that bad. But you have to remember that this person truly has came much longer in life, and maybe been trough much more. And like a normal 15 year old, you're kinda trying to find yourself.

Remeber never to let a guy come in the way of finding yourself. Ofcourse, love is great. A boyfriend can be good to have. But thats not everything. Never let a guy stand in the way of who you really are.

So I think maybe a guy in your same age is probably thinking more like you. But a problem is that teenage guys often just wants to play. So maybe that could be a problem too? I don't know, but love certainly is problematic.


My "boyfriend" (more like the one I'm dating.) is 17. And he is kinda serious about us. But another boyfriend I had, that was an year older, was really not serious. So again, it's really about personalitys too.

But I'm not quite sure what kind of person I am. And I'm not sure how serious I want to be yet. So I think I'll just wait and see. I hope he understands that I'm still in the process finding myself. And that a crush can come and go in 3 seconds. Many people have told me I seem mature, and I guess I can be too. But I promiss, I can also be really childish.

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